because I AM SEXY

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(the content of this piece does not aim to hurt the sensibilities and emotions of any one concerned.The views expressed by the blogger are personal)

I had been thinking all this while that why is the newspaper not printing any news that would start a debate, and wish granted. I read it today about all the chaos surrounding the word "sexy".
An honorable lady who is presently the chairperson at "NATIONAL COMMISSION for WOMEN". 
The dear lady, just showed the "audacity" to say that women should not feel offended on being called "sexy"
Now the hell broke loose because our true to their heart " INDIAN NARI's" found the comment really offensive.
Ok so here I am, what is wrong with being called  "sexy". Why is our thinking so narrow that we consider "sexy" as a stigma.
Well i won't blame the souls who dress in dhoti kurtas and gandhian blouse-saree for finding "sexy" offensive(not because they were never called so :P ) but because its their point of view and even though no content that damages sensibilities of the selected few orthodox people is allowed, yet India is a nation that respects freedom of expression(pun intended).
The lady was very correct in voicing her opinion because as she later clarified she said that in a broader context considering the youth and so she refuted the demands for her resignation and of her apologizing.

Look at what is going on around us. Me a girl and others included, all of us love to be complimented on our dresses, the smart ones call it "hot" the over-smart ones "sexy".We don't mind that because we know the compliment was a mark of appreciation and there was nothing sexual about it.
There is an other side too,the cheapsters out there who do nothing but pass these not so pleasant version or rather highly unpleasant version of  "sexy"
The expression shows but believe you me, avoid them and move ahead because they can only say and you can't fight with every single soul around.

Now our saree clad ladies have, because of the rising rates of crime against women; become so cynical that they can think of nothing but the later part and don't even think twice before generalizing that.

The solution, if my lady chairperson is listening to me lies in, please specify the target audience first rather than explaining the point later.My lady you aren't wrong and we the youths support you, but still you really have to be cautious when you hold a position that matters.

Be specific and thorough because Rutherford's model though it had obvious results about the particle rotation gave away to Bohr's one just because it wasn't specifying enough..

Words and words and words..its the same and still so different..You better watch out because people are there to catch

Comments

  1. sachin.blackbird27 February 2012 at 08:04

    SEXY!!!

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  2. Vineet Kumar4 March 2012 at 21:32

    When you are a blogger, you should not write ---- *(the content of this piece does not aim to hurt the sensibilities and emotions of any one concerned.The views expressed by the blogger are personal)*. Blogging is the freedom of expression, so exploit that.

    And about the article, two words- For you Shatakshi-SEXY. and for this article, SEXY again! Let more brilliant posts come.

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