Of Love…AND Kush!!!

(The views expressed by the author are based on experiences surely not her's :D :P)

All the time I was single, I used to look at those happy couples holding hands and enjoying being with each other. Now I am in their place and I won’t say I am any different.

I love my life to the hilt and my guy/girl is so perfect. We love each other a lot and life was never this good ever.

Now this was just the beginning, I’ll tell you what happens next.

It is a general tendency, everyone likes to know new people and sometimes when this liking extends beyond a limit, they start believing that it is love.

Sometimes it is love too but then there is a thing we call as “CHANGE” and there is another thing we call “MONOTONY”.

Then comes a time when we meet other people and sometimes we find them really good, better than the previous ones and we think it is love now and the earlier one was a mistake.

Or sometimes it so happens that options (proposals) come our way and we feel that wish! I could go for it.

Actually what happens is we fall for the change we are experiencing then. When it is love, it is an entirely different feeling and we know that life has for sure changed.

It is not the puppy love we have for every other person we find hot, smart etc.

It has been my general observation that when a relationship commences, people spend time only and only with their love interest and the entire other world fails to exist for them.

This is what is the root cause of the entire problem, do not ever stick to one person all the time. Give the other person his/her space and enjoy yours too.

And let me tell you one thing very honestly, it is definitely not the case that if you are in love with someone than you cannot like another one. It is just that if you really love him/her, you’ll be loyal & logical enough to know your call. So do not feel the guilt pangs that you have started liking someone, because like and love are two very different things.

Love does not restrict you, it frees you beyond boundaries but still at the end of the day, you know where to come back to. It is all about trust you have in your partner and he/she has in you.

There will be many Loves and Kushes and Sitas and Gitas but you will always know who you real “special someone is”

All the Best for your LOVE life!!