AND SO THEY THOUGHT AND SAID

I had been thinking for long as to what should I write about. There were things going on in my life and I was just living it my way, oblivious to what people were saying or thinking about me.

And then suddenly some things changed and I had the thought for my new blog.

“LOG KYA KAHEGE (what will people say); this is the major concern for most of us living here n this world. Regardless of what we feel, what we want, what we do, the only concern is “log kya kahege”

Come on now, why do we have to worry so much about people. Their views matter only till we want them to. You don’t care and they don’t matter.

Ok I know what most of you must be thinking, “Man is a social animal”, but did you people ever notice that ultimately He is an animal. Have you ever seen a cheetah thinking twice before grabbing its prey and tearing it into pieces? “Log” were definitely going to say things about him.

The monkey never thought twice before jumping from one tree to another or hanging by its tail. “Log” definitely call him restless “monkey”. None among them really cares about others and still wildlife exists in a perfect geological and biological balance (off course till we intrude)

(I know you can’t act parallel to the aforementioned but still we can always draw the parallels. Don’t you have what we call as “similies”)

Man, oh poor man, has brain and organs far more developed then these poor animals but still it lives not his life but what others want it to be.

Honestly, tell me; these people, were they there when you shed a tear, did they come to console you in your miseries or offered any help in distress.

No, they didn’t, instead you believing in your own acumen took up the challenges and solved your problems. When you didn’t think of them in your sorrows, why mar your happiness thinking of them.

They say and forget. They are born to say and they say because you took your turn to say about them. (TIC)

You are an individual and you know what you are, do they know you??

No! They do not because they don’t care. You are just another gossip for them. They’ll talk about you and the moment they find something more interesting than you are, they’ll just move on.

Why then kill yourself by thinking about what they think. So true the fact that insult and winters are all about how much you feel them. Add to that the fact “apki jhand tab tak nai hoti jab tak aap nai mante” (please refer to Kashif Qureshi’s chat with Salman Khan)

Your life is too precious to think about other’s thoughts. Work and live for your satisfaction. If you are satisfied, you are the happiest one alive. You are your best judge, they aren’t.

It’s your life, live it on your terms. The decisions are entirely yours and ultimately you will be affected so decide accordingly. You are the only one responsible for your life, none else cares.

So chill out, take a deep breath, close your eyes, think all the good you are, smile at yourself and then think do they really matter??

And yeah, whatever you chose, its your life anyway and I have no say in it. I am living mine, you live yours all on our respective terms.

Take Care