In Your Face!- The Friend Checklist
Dear All,
It has been like more than my usual posting time since I last posted in September. This was unusually bad of me to have neglected this particular blog since it was the first one I ever had and it did and still continues to provide me the maximum audience I have.
So, that makes me look really bad to myself because that is not how it should be. And so, my sincere apologies to "And so I thought and said".
Anyway, so you all must have had a lot of friends, like minimum 10 of them and that is really really good for you because you should have a lot of people to hang out with. Yes! I just said that and I know it is mean but the reasons I can explain pretty well.
You see, how do you define friends? Someone with whom you can share everything you want to and you know you will not be judged. Your friend is someone who stand by you through thick and thin and do blah blah things for you.
So positive na! Such beautiful way of defining friendship which is actually another way of defining people who "have helped you or will help you".
No take a look at this, just go through this checklist and tell me how many people pass it.
It has been like more than my usual posting time since I last posted in September. This was unusually bad of me to have neglected this particular blog since it was the first one I ever had and it did and still continues to provide me the maximum audience I have.
So, that makes me look really bad to myself because that is not how it should be. And so, my sincere apologies to "And so I thought and said".
Anyway, so you all must have had a lot of friends, like minimum 10 of them and that is really really good for you because you should have a lot of people to hang out with. Yes! I just said that and I know it is mean but the reasons I can explain pretty well.
You see, how do you define friends? Someone with whom you can share everything you want to and you know you will not be judged. Your friend is someone who stand by you through thick and thin and do blah blah things for you.
So positive na! Such beautiful way of defining friendship which is actually another way of defining people who "have helped you or will help you".
No take a look at this, just go through this checklist and tell me how many people pass it.
- Well, they know when to shut up and give you your time to heal
- They are not always saying you are correct, they chide you when you are wrong
- They may not stand for you but they do stand against people who are against you
- They simply cannot move on when you are not OK!
- They expect you to be honest and sometimes when they know you did hide something, they do feel hurt
- You have not been in contact for long but when you do, it is always like you have been talking daily
- Well they do not really ask you for something, they order you and it has come after serious thinkings if you would be comfortable doing it
- Basically, they do value you
If anyone scored even 5/8 in this, he/she is your friend as in a real friend. Else, they are just acquaintances you made while walking through this path called life.
I know this might fall harsh on many but that is how it is, maybe it is high time that we started valuing real relationships and not get ditched by some people and pass this statement," Aajkal to sab hi aise hogae hai!"
Because my darlings, "Sab aise nahi hai", we just made the wrong choices, that is it!
PS: Just make sure that all those who passed this test know that they did. A loving message from you to them will make them feel good and maybe you get one message back too!
Cheers!
(Confused Genius is feeling super proud that she has this small number of friends who totally qualified this, But, she is waiting for you to give an even acidic test at it :P )
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