Getting Committed and Beyond
(AN EYE OPENER FOR THE “DYING TO BE COMMITTED”)
I had been observing people around and there is this
implacable urge in them to somehow end up being “committed”, talks of finding
“true love” and finally settling down with the “love of their life”.
There are marriages happening around me of people of
my age and I am sadly left flabbergasted as to have I really grown this old?
People are marrying their “first loves”, though this
first love happened nth time (tic). And the ones who are still single are
searching for their “right ones”, needless to say; desperately.
Now, here is an eye opener for you all. Please see
to the fact that there is no “first love” or “love of your life”. It’s all you
falling for someone and compatibility. And you finally settle down when you see
no other better option coming your way, sometimes you choose it, sometimes your
parents do it for you.
That is my personal observation and I may well be
wrong but this is generality I speak of.
And for all those who think that their “prince
charming” will keep them like a princess; well oh the princess-effect wears off
after a maximum of 1 year (there may be exceptions I do not negate) and the hot
girl soon gets boring because there are other hot girls too.
Life of a “committed” one through the eyes of a
“single” person seems fun and perfect but to be honest, the vice-versa exists
here too.
That shared ice-cream doesn't taste really good
always and sometimes you just feel you get the whole “Cadbury Silk” all for
yourself. And then you have to measure before you speak to your one or other
ones. And you always have to think what the other person is thinking about you.
There are a lot of ifs and buts and you have to live
through them.
Believe me when I say that the best of the relation
that really works is the one where you stop pretending as a romantic partner
and act as a friend. It is just like that. Romance is not something that is going
to smolder through always. The fire goes off soon and then you see the other
“fires”.
Do not get desperate for finding that special
someone because any day you will get just what God has made for you, you really
don’t have to worry for that. Do not let your friends make fun of you and call
you a desperado and please for your sake do not spoil the many moments you
could have enjoyed with the opposite sex friends which you just did flirting
with them, taking them as a future prospect.
So, just hang on and enjoy with your friends, do not
get committed just for the sake of it; because when you have friend, you have
options too (tic); but when you are “committed” (mind it! Committed I say) you
are actually not on a lookout for or of.
(PS: The
passage has no direct/indirect relation to the author)
making the readers confused idiots..
ReplyDeletevery poor sense of grammar and punctuation.
ReplyDeletebefore writing blogs first learn to correct your grammar.
A fool is flattering you without even reading the blog and you reply to him saying " it meant a lot to me".
Those who seriously read the blog will only point to the many grammar mistakes and disjoint ideas in this